Being The Eldest Sibling Sucks!

Being The Eldest Sibling Sucks!

My mom and sister

Being the eldest sibling sucks! I don’t really often speak about my family, but as some of you may or may not know I have a younger sister thats is four years my junior – which makes the eldest sibling!

My sister and I have never been close for you guys out there who knows what its like to have a younger sister, its the worst you are constantly arguing, younger sister keeps stealing your clothes not to mention wearing it out in public and making you look like the biggest ass loser! My sister Lauren and I are so different probably because we both have different dads which we hardly knew it was always just the two of us and my mom… Which means we spend a lot of time together, I always felt like the black sleep of my family the way I spoke, doing school work all the time and not getting influence by friends yes a true nerd indeed! My sister Lauren on the other hand was always the rebel, starting smoking (bleh worst thing in the world),bunked school and she even got caught banking school outside the school gate and the police had to escort  her back to school and my poor mom had to go and get her out of trouble. ( How dumb, who bunks school right outside the school gate)
Being the eldest sibling really sucked because the pressure was always on me to keep my sister in line and to provide for the family! My sister fell pregnant at 16 and was never able to finish school – if only she listened to me… Before we found out about her pregnancy I always tried so hard to explain to her the importance of finishing school and how it would help her, instead of being pressured by her friends because they thought it was cool…
Well as much as you probably doesn’t want to admit it she wish she listened to me, I love my nephew to bits but I wished my sister did things the right way to have bought him into a world with her having a decent educating.. Being the eldest can throw so many challenges in your way especially when having a younger sibling who doesn’t give a fuck about anything you say… I love my sister I just wanted so much for her, I wish she understood that before her life changed so much…
I will always be there to support her and help her make better decisions I know I am only 25 but I have a fair amount of life experiences to be able to show her the right way and to lean her to be a better person and mom to her cutest baby boy.
So yeah being the eldest sibling really sucks I wish I didn’t have all these responsibilities, but then again it makes you stronger and allows you to be able to take on life and to help guide younger siblings if only they would listen!

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